It’s taken me long time for to figure out what I want out of life. I had a very laissez faire attitude because life was easy growing up and then when I entered the real world, when I started working, my life started to go down hill. I’ve analyzed it and I think I have found the reason.
When I was young, I believed I could do and be anything. No one challenged this. The world was my oyster.
When I grew up, I started to lose confidence in my abilities and I lost my way. I did things I had to do and not what I wanted to do. I stopped following my dreams and I forgot what they were after a while. Then I started drifting. Life knocked me down and kicked me really hard. i didn’t know how to pick myself up. When I was at the bottom and feeling sorry for myself, it didnt take my long to figure things out. It was a wake up call.
My fall started in 2009 and my wake up call was in 2012. Two years on, I look back and think, I have picked myself up and taken small steps to move forward. I am in charge of my own destiny. I know where I want to go, I just have to figure out how to get there.
I feel positive going into 2014. Thank you bloggers for being there and encouraging me on my journey. I feel truly blessed and thank full.
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January 9, 2014 at 01:50
Love the rooster and the dogs. Your blog has a great vibe. As for your life readjustment, I have been through many of those over the years, and they invariably result in better things, as long as your head is in the right place or your nose pointed in the right direction.
January 7, 2014 at 07:15
Just keep climbing and doing what you like doing. You’re certainly bringing a lot of pleasure and good advice to the blogging community. Best wishes for 2014! 🙂
January 6, 2014 at 05:35
Thank you my lovely! 🙂
January 6, 2014 at 05:34
Thank you! You read my mind. That’s exactly what I intend to do. It’s my time off to reflect and rebalance. 🙂
January 6, 2014 at 05:33
thank you! I’m definitely not alone and it will be an interesting one that’s for sure 🙂